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	<title>Staci Wilder &#187; graduation</title>
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		<title>Glad with the Grads. (Or A Lesson Learned.)</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don&#8217;t matter and those who matter don&#8217;t mind.&#8221;  ~Dr. Seuss It was Tuesday night and my deadline was today at noon. I&#8217;d already typed in a zillion-and-one different thoughts over the course of the day, only to go back later and delete them [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;<em>Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don&#8217;t matter and those who matter don&#8217;t mind</em>.&#8221;  ~Dr. Seuss</p>
<p>It was Tuesday night and my deadline was today at noon.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d already typed in a zillion-and-one different thoughts over the course of the day, only to go back later and delete them all. I stared a blank computer screen and tried to focus.</p>
<p>No, this wasn&#8217;t for a story idea. Or an article for a magazine. Or even a blog post for Faith Lifts.</p>
<p>What held me in the throes of agony was a speech.</p>
<p>In just four short days I would stand before the 2010 graduating class of NCCA and tell them -</p>
<p>Tell them <em>what?</em></p>
<p>It wasn&#8217;t that I didn&#8217;t have ideas. Oh no! It was more like I had <em>too many</em>.</p>
<p>How do you stand before a group of excited kids and try to impart a bit of the<em> </em>knowledge and wisdom you&#8217;ve gleaned along the way? Can that kind of advice/revelation/sharing really be done in a fifteen minute speech?</p>
<p>I finally decided that I wasn&#8217;t going to find the answer that day. So I went to bed.</p>
<p>And, as I do every night before I drift off, I deliberately shut out all the other things in my head and on my heart. I turned them all over to Him and began to relax as the stresses of the day slipped off my shoulders.</p>
<p>My last thought as I went to sleep was that I wished I could share <strong>this</strong> with the graduates.</p>
<p>The next day I knew what to say.</p>
<p>Life is either simply complex or complexly simple. I like to think it&#8217;s the latter.</p>
<p>And so this afternoon I stood behind the podium, looked into the eyes of the graduates, and said this:</p>
<p><em>&#8220; I would ask of you today that you always listen for One certain voice. As you move forward into your college years, your careers, or your  ministries, you’ll hear a lot of different voices. </em></p>
<p><em>Voices that will vie for your time, your energy,  and your loyalty. At the end of the day – as your head touches your pillow and your eyes close in exhaustion – there is only ONE voice that truly matters. </em></p>
<p><em>If you can keep the voice of God as your focus in the big middle of everything else you have going on, your life will be a very simple, very happy, very productive one.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>It&#8217;s a lesson well learned.</p>
<p>It really is that simple.</p>
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